Marriage name-change guide
How to update Social Security after marriage
Start with Social Security before changing many other records. SSA now uses a short online questionnaire to tell you whether you can complete the request online or need to finish at a local office.
Quick answer
Use the Social Security Administration’s official Change name with Social Security tool. You are requesting a replacement card, not a new Social Security number. Depending on your state and circumstances, you may complete the request online or start online and finish at an office.
1. Make sure your marriage document supports the name you want
A certified marriage certificate is commonly used as evidence of the legal name change. A decorative or commemorative marriage certificate may not be accepted. If the requested name cannot be derived from your marriage document, SSA may require a court order or other legal evidence.
2. Gather the documents SSA requests
Requirements depend on your citizenship, identity, and the age of the name-change event. SSA’s questionnaire provides the current list for your situation. Commonly requested evidence includes:
- Your certified marriage certificate or other legal name-change document.
- Current proof of identity, such as an unexpired driver’s license, state ID, or U.S. passport.
- Citizenship or lawful immigration evidence when SSA’s records need it.
3. Follow SSA’s online or office workflow
- Open SSA’s official name-change page.
- Answer the eligibility questions.
- Complete the online request if offered, or start it online and schedule/visit the office SSA identifies.
- Keep confirmation details until your replacement card arrives.
Form SS-5 remains SSA’s Application for a Social Security Card, but the online workflow is the best starting point because it tells you which completion path applies.
4. Check the new record before moving on
SSA says a replacement card is generally mailed within 5–10 business days after completing the request. Your Social Security number stays the same. When the card arrives, check the spelling carefully and keep it secure.
Many state motor-vehicle agencies verify your updated name against SSA. Allow the agencies’ systems time to synchronize before a DMV visit, and check your state’s instructions rather than assuming a universal waiting period.
5. Continue through the rest of your checklist
After Social Security, typical updates include your driver’s license or state ID, employer payroll records, passport, banks, insurance, voter registration, and travel programs. The order and documentation can vary.
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Frequently asked questions
Does changing my name change my Social Security number?
No. You are updating the name attached to your existing record and requesting a replacement card.
Can every newlywed complete the change online?
No. Online completion depends on SSA eligibility rules and participating jurisdictions. SSA’s questionnaire tells you whether you can finish online or must complete the request at an office.
Should I change my driver’s license first?
Usually Social Security comes first because state agencies may verify your name against SSA. Follow your state motor-vehicle agency’s current sequence and timing instructions.
Official sources
- SSA: Change name with Social Security
- SSA: Manage your personal Social Security record
- USAGov: Agencies to notify of a name change